Cancer and Sagittarius Compatibility
It’s easy enough to tell straight away from the zodiac archetypes of this couple that true Cancer and Sagittarius compatibility in love will be hard to find. The fundamental nature of the Homemaker, Cancer, is at odds with the wanderlust and expansiveness of Sagittarius the Adventurer. This relationship is a constant battle between security and risk, with neither partner being fully able to compromise.
Cancer and Sagittarius compatibility, uneasy though it is, does manifest as a steamy and passionate match – for a short while. This could be a relationship or love affair which burns brightly for a few weeks or a few months, before Sagittarius’ fire boils away Cancer’s emotions, and until Cancer’s water threatens to extinguish Sagittarian enthusiasm for good. That’s the trouble with these two: they will try to change each other.
The Cancer partner is all about home and family life, and forging a stable home will be their top priority in a relationship. The Sagittarius partner really isn’t interested in all that, and would much rather sow his or her wild oats first. Sagittarius would be delighted to have Cancer along for the ride on the adventure, but Cancer won’t want to go – which leaves Sagittarius exploring alone, and Cancer sat at home waiting and wondering and constantly wondering whether the Adventurer will ever return. It’s a constant worry and turmoil for Cancer, and Sagittarius compatibility will not improve as the Homemaker tries to take control and limit Sagittarius’ freedom.
Expect a lot of bickering between this couple. Cancer can be very passive aggressive and manipulative when they’re not getting their own way, which infuriates Sagittarius. The Adventurer can be blunt, tactless and hurtful, but the Sag partner will always be honest and direct. Cancer’s evasive ways will not go down well here. For Cancer and Sagittarius, compatibility doesn’t always extend even as far as enjoying a good argument, because both partners will fight very differently and will quickly become frustrated by the other.
The good news is that there is very little malice in their fights. Sagittarius is fundamentally good-hearted and well-meaning and does not want to hurt Cancer. Cancer is kind, gentle and loving, and does not want to hurt Sagittarius – but they just can’t help it. With (a lot of) patience and mutual understanding, this couple could learn to tolerate one another’s differences, and then possibly Cancer and Sagittarius compatibility might improve. The problem is, however, that the Sagittarius partner isn’t hot on patience and the relationship might never get deep enough for the pair to discover a way through the mess.
Cancer and Sagittarius Compatibility Scores
Cancer and Sagittarius can be a challenging relationship to make work. The low scores represent the initial compatibility of this match. However, you are both strong willed enough to make this work, and if you succeed the scores would be much higher. If you can both adapt to the others style this is a relationship which will improve steadily over time, and eventually rival any other match. The low scores represent a high initial challenge, and not a long term pessimistic view.
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Cancer and Sagittarius Relationships
The first dinner date with Sagittarius may be at the most exotic place in town. As a risk taker, Sagittarius loves strange and sensual places, as well as any upscale event. Cancer likes fine dining but quiet and private. Antique shopping and staying home are also favorites of Cancer.
Often appearing tough and hard on the outside, Cancer is actually friendly, intelligent and compassionate. Craving security and stability, they want strong leaders and don’t mind possessiveness. Cancers like adventure but also love their home.
To attract a Cancer woman, invite her home for a home cooked meal and make her feel at home. The Cancer woman loves compliments. To attract a Cancer man, get past that tough exterior. Ask him what his hobbies are and what does he do. Share your daily, weekly and social events with him.
To attract a Sagittarius, be straightforward, approach with optimism and dazzle with your adventures and wildest dreams. Sagittarius women are known for their charm while the male is known for constant activity. Ask questions and make them laugh. Sagittarius is not above using flattery to get sex and is the astrological victor of one night stands.
Cancer is sexual, warm and responsive in the bedroom. Sex is full of variety and vitality. This lover is very physical but wants tender whispers and caressing. Sagittarius likes to explore sexually. Cancer will try new things. A feeling of safety and trust must be inspired in Cancer before any risque encounters. The Sagittarius’ thighs are their erogenous zone, and Cancer’s is the chest. Sensual bedroom accents are candles, perfume, music and dim lights.
A relationship between these two lovers is not in astrological favor. Cancer may be too emotional as a lover and Sagittarius may be too much of a tease to provide the sexual admiration Cancer needs. Their sexual problems must be worked out. If not, Sagittarius will stray, and Cancer will be emotionally hurt, becoming too clingy.